rose world or thorn world?

This haiku…

An unthankful heart
with eyes fixed on thorns has a
rose and yet does not

…plus this quote

“When you take a flower in your hand and really look at it, it’s your world for the moment.” ~ Georgia O’Keeffe

begs this question:

Which world do I want? With complaining, I get only thorns, but with gratitude, my world is a rose.